In the first week of 2012, we waved goodbye to our East Coast friends and family and boarded a plane for Chicago, then San Jose, then Burbank. Then we rode in a taxi to West Hollywood, and finally we were back in our little apartment.
It was a long trip.

On long trips, I normally spend a good deal of time thinking about stuff. I write in my journal; I make lists. In this case, a list of goals for 2012 would have been appropriate, but no such list was created on that first flight of 2012, and for one very good reason. This guy:

We love this guy, but this guy does not love being under the seat in front of you on an airplane. In fact, he doesn’t want to be under anything other than your hand, which should be constantly moving in a petting/scratching motion. He wants to be on top of you or beside you, sleeping soundly or looking out the window. But because none of those things are allowed on airplanes, he resorted to snorting in frustration, biting the dog carrier, scratching furiously at its sides. He emitted a high-pitched whine. He was generally unhappy.
To keep him as happy as possible, we snuck furtive pets; fed him approximately forty-five dog biscuits, four tablespoons of peanut butter, and three sedatives (recommended dosage: 1/2 pill); and told him over and over again that everything would be okay. And then we discovered the ultimate trick: the foot pet. Danny slid off his shoe and put his stockinged foot into the top of the dog carrier. Then he massaged Kodi with his toes for several hours until we landed. After that, Kodi was relatively quiet, comforted by nonstop foot pets.
Even though there were moments of peace on that flight, I was already too stressed and exhausted to think seriously about my goals for 2012. Then again, it’s never too late.
So I’m making a list of what I’d like to accomplish, and I’m going to honor it. Before I do that, though, I’d like to take a moment to honor what 2012–this strange and ominous year–has already given us.

Sleepy, snuggly late mornings.

Home-cooked meals (like the meatballs in the pot above). We haven’t eaten out since we got back to L.A.!

Lovely views.

A bath for Kodi, who is a maniac when he gets wet.
Also, several new video projects, exciting work events, long walks and trips to the dog park, and relaxing afternoons and nights spent watching movies.
I feel ready for 2012 now.